The Facade Of The First Date

Have you ever been out with someone on a first date and it seems like they were dropped from heaven? I know one is not supposed to reply to a rhetorical question but,  I have been on such dates. Most people are usually in their best behaviour when they are seeing someone for the first time. They appear nice, gentle, tolerant, oh Lord! They are just a bunch of happiness. They say all you want to hear, proffer solutions to all your problems and you just wonder, Where has he been all my life?

The truth however is that most people come with masks and thick lenses to cover up their flaws on a first date. The mistake most people make is allowing people's attitude on a first date make lasting impressions on them. Since they say first impression matters most. Well,I don't think people should let first impression matter on them. Taking your time to know your partner well enough is keen on preventing a serious heartbreak.

That a guy buys you an expensive meal on a first date, may not mean that he's nice. He may be 'investing' like a friend once told me. Time has been the greatest anti pretense agent. People cannot pretend for long. With time the mask falls off and shows their real personalities.


Enjoy the poem below


When we first met, he said it was love at first sight
His love, affection, doting put my heart on a flight
I blessed the lord, oh! this is the one, I finally got it right
But, then he lets the cat of the bag
His affections appear on his lips
The party is finally over
I heave and sigh,
Alas! Happily ever after happens only in fairy tales.

                     Have a wonderfilled day

                       Love ya loads
                       Kizzes
                       Dieko.